The Draper Community Committee convened on the evening of October 15, 2025, via Zoom and in person, to discuss community engagement, upcoming holiday recognitions, festival retrospectives, and volunteer opportunities. The meeting featured an inspirational opening by Amitava regarding the importance of vulnerability in building trust, followed by a review of past events and planning for future initiatives including World Kindness Week and the America 250 celebration.
Welcome friends. Thanks for being here tonight on Zoom or in person on this rainy night. We have just enough people to start, so we're just gonna do roll call real quick to make sure we know everyone who's joined us right now. Um let's see Melanie Morris and Lucy, I'm forgetting her last name. Is it Twilight? Oh okay. Williams, yeah. And then Amitala, Ray Baluni, and I Balgani, how do you pronounce your last name? Yeah, yeah. Melanie was uh yeah, okay. And and then we have Jenny asked. And Tara Batchini and Linda Peterson, and Bryan Johnson, and Kelly Taller. Okay, so we should have gonna go back and do the minute. Who was that? All right. Um okay, and then um Amitava is gonna share an inspirational thought with us. Sure, okay. Should we start with that right away? Yes, sure. Okay, okay. Okay. Hi everyone. Um yeah, sorry, I wanted to be there in person but couldn't do it today. Um so I I recently, just a couple of weeks ago, I um had a group of friends from college who traveled to Utah for a photography trip, and they wanted me to join them. So I was very busy, but uh and I also had not done photography in a while. So I felt kind of reluctant to go along. But eventually I was very guilty that I had not seen them for over five years, and this would have been a great time to bond. So I quickly bought a camera and learned to how to use it and all that, and then I joined them. So I I'm glad I did that because it was the best time of my life visiting places that I had probably I would have never thought about going alone and uh ended up shooting about 600 landscape pictures. Which still needs editing. So it's all sitting on my uh hard drive law. But um so one of those readings as we were camping in a remote area in the um in a reservation. Um I found out that one of my friends, one of them had gone through a very tough time last year with an L. So I felt bad that I had not known about it and had not reached out to him. So when I asked him why he didn't tell me earlier, he simply said, uh I didn't want to bother you, you are quite busy. So that stunned a little bit because not that I was upset with uh that he did ask, but because I realized that he didn't see me as someone he could lean on. Right. So that got me thinking about friendships and how we need to nurture them. So I had a quick thought about that. So I wrote down a few lines to share with you guys. Um we don't build trust by offering help. We build it by asking for it. So I'll repeat that we don't build trust by offering to help. We build it by asking for help. So it sounds a little backward, uh, but most of us have been taught that being helpful makes us trustworthy. And uh but think about what really happens when we ask someone for help. So we as a Draco City, we talk about so many projects where we are helping others and helping uh our neighborhood and community and so on, right? So we really think that helping others is really important, right? But then sometimes we need to step back and think about it in a different way. So when we do, when we ask someone for help, we are saying I trust you.